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<td align="center" colspan="2" style="border-right:#cccccc 1px solid;font-weight:bold"><strong>Stephen Bloom at his alma mater, the<br />Dickinson School of Law of <br />Penn State University.</strong></td>
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<p>Stephen Bloom admits he had no romanticized notions of being a justice fighter or peacemaker when he started his career as a lawyer. He attended Dickinson School of Law in Carlisle, Pa., for purely mercenary reasons &ndash; because he knew he had the required skills and could make a good living. But God had other plans.</p>
<p>Although Bloom had no exposure to Christianity while growing up in New York, Michigan and Pennsylvania, and didn&rsquo;t even set foot inside a church until he was 18, he began to feel God&rsquo;s &ldquo;prevenient grace &ndash; God reaching out to you before you are ready to reach out for Him,&rdquo; during his second year in law school.</p>
<p>&ldquo;I wasn&rsquo;t looking for Christianity, but I was starting to be drawn to it, sort of inexplicably,&rdquo; Bloom says. &ldquo;I would pray the &lsquo;agnostic&rsquo;s prayer&rsquo; &ndash; &lsquo;God if you exist, show me a sign.&rsquo; I realized I had been blessed in so many different ways; that was the sign. That got my attention.&rdquo;</p>
<p>With encouragement from his wife, Sharon, and his pastor at Grace United Methodist Church in Carlisle, Pa., the only church he has ever attended, Bloom became a born-again Christian two years out of law school while he was practicing as an attorney at a large, secular law firm. Then the uneasiness set in.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Your job as a secular attorney is assumed to strictly be a zealous advocate for your client, no matter what the situation, no matter what the morality of the client&rsquo;s cause,&rdquo; Bloom says. &ldquo;I wasn&rsquo;t happy with that at all. I felt like I was undermining the kingdom of God by sometimes working for causes I felt were absolutely improper, that were detrimental to the overall well-being of society and a poor witness for Christ.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Although he began to envision starting his own private, Christian law practice, the realities of leaving such a secure job while trying to raise his three children, Nick, Anna and Katy, hindered his desire to leave the firm.</p>
<p>&ldquo;My wife and I were constantly praying about it. I would get to the point where I decided I had to make a change, but then the practical realities would flow back in and I would think &lsquo;I need to be a witness where I am. Isn&rsquo;t that the right thing to do?&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>
<p class="smallheader">Watershed moment</p>
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<p>At a crossroads, Bloom prayed God would give him guidance while at a Promise Keepers men&rsquo;s convention in Philadelphia, Pa., in 1998. Amidst the prayers of the other 40,000 men in the stadium, Bloom experienced what he calls his &ldquo;watershed moment.&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;I sensed God speaking to me. It wasn&rsquo;t like I could hear it with my ears, but it was clear as can be. I heard God saying to me, &lsquo;You know what you have to do.&rsquo; I realized right then and there that I was going to have to leave that law firm and I was going to have to strike out and do a so-called Christian law practice. I didn&rsquo;t know what that would look like and I still don't know for sure; it&rsquo;s a work in progress.&rdquo;</p>
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<td align="center" colspan="2" style="border-right:#cccccc 1px solid;font-weight:bold"><strong>Stephen Bloom guesting on "The Harvest<br />Show," an internationally broadcast<br />Christian television program, with hosts<br />Kelly Morgan and&nbsp;Stefan Radelich.&nbsp;</strong></td>
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<p>Eight months later and with his wife as his administrative assistant, Bloom launched his solo practice out of his home in Carlisle, Pa., later hiring two paralegals. Although he took a titanic leap of faith in leaving the secular law firm, Bloom still faced challenges in adjusting to his work as a Christian lawyer.</p>
<p>&ldquo;It was a lot of unlearning old habits and trying to think outside the box. I had to really ask myself the question, &lsquo;How can I be an advocate for Christ in these situations?&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>
<p class="smallheader">Sitting on a gold mine</p>
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<td align="center" colspan="2" style="border-right:#cccccc 1px solid;font-weight:bold"><strong>Stephen Bloom signing copies of his <br />book, "The Believer's Guide to Legal <br />Issues" for patrons at the International <br />Christian Retail Show in Orlando, Fl.</strong></td>
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<p>Bloom often turned to his Bible for guidance on handling legal issues from a Christian perspective, finding verses such as 1 Corinthians 6:1: &ldquo;If any of you has a dispute with another, dare he take it before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the saints?&rdquo; He began keeping notebooks to record the verses, later sharing his newfound insight with Central Pennsylvanians on a radio show, &ldquo;Practical Counsel &ndash; Christian Perspective.&rdquo;</p>
<p>After two and a half years of writing scripts for the radio show, Bloom realized he was &ldquo;sitting on a gold mine of knowledge and had to get the word out.&rdquo; He began writing &ldquo;The Believer's Guide to Legal Issues,&rdquo; a book containing practical legal advice for lay Christians, appropriately filled with Bible verses.</p>
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<td align="center" colspan="2" style="border-right:#cccccc 1px solid;font-weight:bold"><strong>Book launch for Stephen Bloom's <br />"Believer's Guide to Legal Issues," after<br />men at his church symbolically outfitted <br />him in the full armor of God (Ephesians&nbsp;6).<br />Left to right:&nbsp;Anna (daughter), Sharon (wife),<br />Stephen, Katy (daughter).&nbsp;</strong></td>
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<p>With the book ready to be published and an opportunity to teach economics and finance part-time at Messiah College in Grantham, Pa., Bloom realized he could no longer manage his Christian law practice on his own. In 2007, he merged his solo practice with Irwin &amp; McKnight, a Christian law firm in Carlisle, Pa. After previously working at the secular law firm, Bloom marveled at the &ldquo;huge differences&rdquo; evident at Irwin &amp; McKnight.</p>
<p>&ldquo;We look at things from a perspective of how we can honor Christ in what we&rsquo;re doing,&rdquo; Bloom says, noting even the staff meetings reveal the gaping contrasts between secular and Christian law firms. &ldquo;We start our meetings reading from the Bible, discussing our prayer needs and the prayer needs of our clients, and praying.&rdquo;</p>
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<td align="center" colspan="2" style="border-right:#cccccc 1px solid;font-weight:bold"><strong>Christian law firm, Irwin &amp; McKnight<br />Front row, left to right: Matthew McKnight, Macus McKinght, Roger Irwin, Douglas Miller, Stephen Bloom; Back row: Sharon Schwaim, Jean Rice, Cheryl Cleland, Karen Noel, Marti Noel, Traci Smith</strong></td>
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<p>Above all, Bloom delights in his newfound role as peacemaker, based on one of the Beatitudes in Matthew 5:9: &ldquo;Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.&rdquo; He often shares the Matthew 18 principle of reconciliation with clients, who ultimately resolve their conflicts on their own without divisive legal action.</p>
<p>&ldquo;That&rsquo;s just the most exciting thing I think I can do. Those are the cases that don&rsquo;t make headlines and no one even hears about it. It was just a matter of rather than throwing gasoline on a fire, I was able to be a peacemaker.&rdquo;</p>
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<td align="center" colspan="2" style="border-right:#cccccc 1px solid;font-weight:bold"><strong>Stephen Bloom teaching economics <br />at Messiah College where he serves on <br />the faculty as a Lecturer in <br />Management and Business</strong></td>
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<p>Bloom plans to continue &ldquo;working with God, not against God&rdquo; and is currently drafting a proposal for a new book about a Christian&rsquo;s right to religious freedom in America. As he continues in his work as a Christian lawyer and part-time professor at Messiah College, he ardently reminds his peers, students and fellow Christians that God can be glorified under all circumstances, even in the cut-throat legal arena.</p>
<p>&ldquo;No matter what your profession is, you can be a witness for Christ in that profession. Look at the Scriptures and see how you can bring God&rsquo;s wisdom to your work, and then do it.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>
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<p><em>You can purchase &ldquo;The Believer&rsquo;s Guide to Legal Issues&rdquo; at </em><a href="http://www.amazon.com"><em>www.amazon.com</em></a><em> and </em><a href="http://www.christianbook.com"><em>www.christianbook.com</em></a><em>. For more information on the book and Stephen Bloom, visit </em><a href="http://www.istherealawyerinthechurch.com"><em>www.istherealawyerinthechurch.com</em></a><em> and </em><a href="http://www.practicalcounsel.com"><em>www.practicalcounsel.com</em></a><em>.</em></p>
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