|
ormitories can be one of the most difficult places to be a positive Christ-like influence on others. When so many people come together from different backgrounds and with different moral views and standards, there often can often be conflict on what is deemed right and wrong.
For those who follow Christ, God sent his Word as a guide, defining what is right and wrong. Where that the same standard is not present, it is important not to be influenced by the negativity and sin that may be present in our surroundings.
The apostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians 6:14 "... For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"
Paul isn't saying that believers and non believers cannot have any sort of relationship, but, rather, that we need to understand the differences. Jesus' words were that Christians "... are the salt of the earth... [and] the light of the world." (Matthew 5: 13-14)
Christians are supposed to stand out and be set apart from those around them. This is part of what the apostle Paul was saying. Christians and non-Christians are fundamentally different. "Everybody's doing it" is not a right standard for Christians.
Often in college dormitories, alcohol and drug abuse become a big issue for Christians who are trying to live by God's standards. Galatians 5:21, along with many other verses, tells believers that drunkenness is sinful. While throughout the Bible there is clear evidence of drinking wine and Jesus miraculously turned water into wine, this does not permit the abuse of alcohol. Drinking for the sake of drunkenness is sin.
Galatians 5:1 says that "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free ...." But Paul also writes in Romans 6:1-2 "What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means!"
Because of the negative connotation sometimes associated with drinking, it may be wise to just say no whenever people are drinking around you. Sharing with people around you why you choose not to drink can open up ways to spread the word of Christ. Showing that you are different because God is better can make other people wonder why God is so great.
With even the simplest thoughts about God, salvation can follow.
Drugs are a big problem in the colleges and among youth in general. The U.S. government has legislated that it is illegal to possess certain drugs. Romans 13:1 tells all Christians to subject themselves to the government and its laws.
Sharing with others why you stay away from drugs and alcohol is a great way to show the Gospel to others. The joy found in God is far greater than any joy on Earth.
Romans 12:2 says "Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. ..."
Paul reminds the followers of Christ to continually grow in the image of Christ. Through prayer, meditation and study of the Word, believers can continue to allow the Holy Spirit to transform their minds including their perspectives on sin and temptation.
The attitude of many in dorms and in colleges is to have parties all the time and fulfill the lusts of the flesh. It can be a huge temptation for Christians to join in drunkenness or promiscuity.
But 1 John 2:15 warns us to "Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." This verse isn't to cast out some believers who may be struggling in temptation or sin; rather, it is to encourage believers. If the love of the Father is in a Christian, that person is no longer bound to sin and no longer bound to love the sinful desires of the world. The love of the Father gives freedom.
Another way to stand out and show devotion to a Christ-like lifestyle in a dormitory is in taking care of your school work. Colossians 3:23 says, "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men."
Not drinking or using drugs, being transformed from this world and doing work to the best of your ability can make you stand out. When questions arise as to why you are so different, relating the good news about Jesus Christ makes the perfect answer.
But there is a warning in 1 John 3:13: "Do ... not be surprised, my brothers, if the world hates you." The message of Christ is a message of love and of hope; however, some people are so deep in sin that they cannot see the love that Christ brings. Others meet the message of the Gospel with hostility and hatred. But take heart, the love of Christ can conquer anything.
In every place - including dormitories - and all walks of life, the Gospel is needed. There are always ways of standing apart from the rest of the world, besides passing up an alcoholic drink, avoiding drugs and simply being studious.
Gossiping can also hinder your witness in dormitories. It is important to flee temptation; and whenever conversations of gossip come up, you can walk away or try to turn the situation positive.
With so many people living in one place, there will be many opportunities to share and serve. Helping someone with their homework or with group projects is an easy way to show that you care about them. Also, giving time in cleaning the common areas will let other residents know that you are there to serve.
Inviting people to come to college groups and service at your church may be the most straightforward way of sharing Jesus Christ with people. Being faithful in your attendance and always inviting other people to come with you can yield great fruit for the Kingdom.
How will they believe if they have not heard? The dormitory residents are waiting to hear of the love of Christ. |
Back
